“The more you try to fit in, the easier it is to be undervalued.” Coming Out as Yourself in BigLaw: Strategy Over Sanitizing … Wednesday, December 10 at 1 pm ET/noon CT, with Rachel Clar, Esq. and Roy Sexton

The more you try to fit in, the easier it is to be undervalued.

You sit in silence as he mispronounces your name again, because correcting him feels riskier than letting it slide.

This is the invisible tax so many women in BigLaw still pay.


Not because they lack skill.


Because they were taught to shrink to stay safe.

Rachel coaches BigLaw women across the AmLaw 200.


Roy leads marketing inside a global firm and has lived this firsthand.

On Wednesday, December 10 at 1 pm ET/noon CT, join Rachel Clar, Esq. and Roy Sexton for:

Coming Out as Yourself in BigLaw: Strategy Over Sanitizing

Register here: https://www.linkedin.com/video/event/urn:li:ugcPost:7396873216117542913

We will unpack how your identity can support your strategy in the rooms that decide your future.

This Live is for attorneys who want to:


→ Speak directly without being labeled difficult
→ Ask for resources in ways that raise your status
→ Decline misaligned work without whispers about your lack of dedication

This session sets the stage for a deeper dive in winter 2026, where you can learn to use your voice in ways that shift outcomes inside your firm.

All registrants get The BigLaw Power Moves Cheat Sheet, which includes ten strategic cues to get yourself heard in high-stakes moments.

Wednesday, December 10 at 1 pm ET/noon CT
Join live or get the replay.

P.S. Which moment feels most familiar:
Being talked over.
Being labeled “too direct.”
Being the default note taker.
Being the token woman in the room.
Or saying yes because no feels dangerous?

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