Exquisite emotional whiplash … Catch as Catch Can at Steppenwolf Theatre

Fourth of July weekend … our way. We kicked off the holiday with another adventure in our summer of Windy City discovery. A lovely dinner at Trattoria Gianni, followed by an utterly remarkable evening of theatre at Steppenwolf Theatre. Mia Chung’s Catch as Catch Can – featuring Gary Cole, Audrey Francis, and Tim Hopper with direction by Amy Morton – is revelatory, devastating, provocative, and blisteringly funny. This is a theatrical experience you will need to sit with for a minute to understand how impactful, triggering, and ultimately healing it was.

Originally produced by Playwrights Horizons in New York City in 2022, the play focuses on two Rhode Island families, with histories long intertwined and a common love language of fussing, teasing, guilting, worrying, avoiding, and eating. A LOT of eating. The theatrical conceit of the play is that six characters across two distinct generations (parent/Boomer and child/Gen X) are played by three actors: Cole as Anglophile helicopter matriarch Roberta Lavecchia and her curmudgeon-beyond-his-years and hard drinking son Robert; Francis as Roberta’s warmly and comically cantankerous husband Lon and their accomplished and insightful and altogether stuck daughter Daniela; and Hopper as Roberta’s lovably twitchy and anxiously overbearing bestie Theresa Phelan and her sweet and ingratiating but increasingly lost son Tim.

Cole, Hopper, Francis – Photo: Michael Brosilow

The play opens with the kind of superficial celebrity obsessing only mothers of a certain generation can do. I’m not being ageist or misogynist. Just accurate. The audience is dropped in medias res, as Roberta and Theresa chatter at length about the British Royal Family in that fawning, judgmental, yet ill-informed, very American way. It’s a bit of foreshadowing for the play’s overall positioning, not in a way that demeans or minimizes these women, but highlights how some parents escape their own familial realities by focusing on the charms and foibles of more famous clans. As the conversation proceeds, charmingly and deftly delivered by Cole and Hopper over a cuppa, IRL truths and worries slowly emerge. Their fears for their own children’s futures, debates over their progeny’s life choices, cultural assumptions and prejudices, outright gossip are all delivered with the lightest touch. Yet strangely ominous.

(My beloved late mother, for one, could sit at the kitchen table for HOURS, monologuing at me, her only child, about the relative charms of Javier Bardem or Russell Crowe or Hugh Jackman, chain smoking one menthol light cigarette after another, playing cutthroat canasta, as the clock ticked inexorably through the wee small hours of the morning, her mood darkening progressively, until she was reliving every perceived dark and tragic wrong she’d endured at the hands of various family members. Think Long Day’s Journey Into Night by way of Coffee Tawk … and Joker. But I digress. Needless to say, this play had me from the jump …)

Cole, Francis – Photo: Michael Brosilow

As the story continues to unfold, we are introduced to each family member carefully and thoughtfully, allowing every character to be established in singular context with their spouse or sibling. It’s a smart structure, helping a modern attention-deficit audience member (like me) track easily who is who and what is what. And key to what is yet to come.

Let me take a moment to commend not only the sharp, clean direction by Steppenwolf ensemble member Amy Morton (who shared stages with Cole in their early days with the company) but the entire production team: scenic design by Andrew Boyce, costume design by Izumi Inaba, lighting design by Yuki Nakase Link, sound design by Mikhail Fiksel, dialect and voice coaching by Kate DeVore, and dramaturgy by Jonathan L. Green. For this doubling of performers to work, a) the actors have to be pitch perfect in their character differentiation (which they are … tens across the board), b) the director has to block this beast with military precision yet make it all seem effortless and fluid (boy, does she), and c) the production team has to aid and abet the enterprise in sundry unsung ways (hell, yeah they do!).

Cole, Hopper, Francis – Photo: Michael Brosilow

What is truly ingenious about the play (and I really need to tread carefully here so I don’t spoil the full impact) is the existential, disorienting pivot that occurs at the mid-way mark, unexpectedly sliding us from relatively broad comedy to deeply felt tragedy. And, damn, does it work. The play runs without intermission, but *if* it were divided into acts (and for the sake of this argument, let’s say it is, but quite frankly an intrusive intermission would ruin the roller coaster-esque plunge), the first “act” is a realistic farce, heightened to a dizzying level as the three actors switch characters, sometimes at breakneck speed, culminating in the charming yet nettlesome chaos of an Italian-American family Christmas gathering. The second “act” is a fever dream of heartache, misunderstanding and hopes deferred, a fragmented surreality, made all the more poignant as the voices of parent and child elide through each actor, signaling the ever-present conflict between desired autonomy and needed connection.

Imagine if someone ran All In The Family, Angels In America, Wit, and Our Town through the Dario Fo machine, turning the concept of a familial memory play on its proverbial head. Yes, I’m finally putting my masters of theatre history and criticism to use with this dubiously sourced, arguably shallow/pretentious comment. Francis and Hopper particularly have a high wire act to execute, switching instantaneously from riotous whimsy to feral pain. Their performances are grounded, compelling, haunting with a precision of technique that should be studied in MFA programs across the land.

Francis, Cole – Photo: Michael Brosilow

One additional specific note on the scenic and lighting design. What is notable and adds to key elements of surprise is how the set and lighting begin as sitcom “realistic”: a static home – kitchen, living room, breezeway – in which the mundane joys of daily life play out. However, as the narrative folds in on itself, like a puzzle box, so do the set and lighting, with key furniture pieces disappearing and emerging via a central lift, and lighting that grows increasingly stark and isolating. Akin to those dreams you may have in the still of the night – the ones that start out conventionally but morph nightmarishly – otherwise comforting spaces grow and contort and become increasingly oppressive. As in all expertly executed stagecraft, the audience doesn’t really notice the atmospheric shift occurring until it’s, well, too late; yet, in post-show analysis and reflection, the magic trick reveals itself.

Fun fact … in full transparency: last year, Audrey, Steppenwolf’s Artistic Director, led a sharp and insightful exercise around genuine connection, engagement, and listening at my firm’s associate attorney retreat. My colleagues Laurel Dearborn and Sarah Ayers, knowing what a theater geek I am, and more than likely seeing the unbridled fandom in my eyes, were kind enough to introduce me to Audrey afterward. In my “Lucy Ricardo” fashion, I insisted we set up a lunch date, and no doubt from morbid curiosity or amused pity or BOTH, Audrey accepted. We have since become friends (lucky her! 😅), but I’d yet had the opportunity to see her do her thing on Steppenwolf’s stage. But I’m so grateful it was with this show. Quite frankly she is transcendent; I’m so damn proud of her. And the fact that I know her had no impact on my objective assessment of this remarkable show. She’s just that dang good.

Francis, Hopper, Cole – Photo: Me

In short, don’t miss this one. I don’t know that I’ve ever had an experience in the theater where the audience goes so very quickly from laughing riotously at the absurdities of life to SUCH a gut punch about how fragile it all can be. Exquisite emotional whiplash.

As a treatise on mental health and self-care (or the lack thereof), the generational divide between performative and authentic connection, the tight rope that Gen X children are now walking between aging parents and their own dissolving sanity, and the unfair expectations we all thrust upon one another in the guise of love, this play – so expertly performed and staged – is a marvel.

Catch as Catch Can runs through July 12. Do. NOT. Miss. This.

Tickets can be purchased here.

Yeah … I put a hurt on the gift shop.

“If you can’t fix it, you gotta stand it.” North American debut of Brokeback Mountain (play with music) at Chicago Shakespeare Theater

This past weekend, in our summer of Windy City discovery, my husband and I took in a remarkable production at Chicago Shakespeare Theater, a gem of a space with nary a bad seat in the house. Alas, this was one of the final performances, so this review is more for my own posterity than anything else I suppose.

Ang Lee’s Brokeback Mountain is a beloved film in our home. For young gay men twenty (!) years ago, it was a revelation and an affirmation (tragic as the story was) to see Hollywood release a blockbuster film, starring au courant heartthrob actors, focused so incisively, so delicately on the gay (closeted) experience. The fact that it was a worldwide critical, cultural, financial success, nominated for numerous Oscars (criminally robbed of winning Best Picture) made for a very powerful moment in our community.

So when we learned Chicago Shakespeare would be bringing last year’s London stage production stateside we quickly added tickets to our digital wallets and to our 2026 summer itinerary, just in time for Pride month.

Fun fact: when my husband loves a piece of entertainment, he NEVER stops watching it. I saw Brokeback Mountain in the theatre with him, opening weekend (I think), but any chance he got afterward he went and saw the film again and again and again on the big screen. I’m guessing about half a dozen times. He’s done the same thing with High School Musical and Wicked … and 98 Degrees. (He’s gonna kill me for sharing this! Sorry – not sorry.)

The elegiac staged treatment draws from Annie Proulx’s source short story but retains all of the essential story beats of the film, coming in at a brisk 90+ minutes. The staging at Chicago Shakespeare was abstract and atmospheric, evoking sepia-toned memories unfolding before our eyes.

If anything, I wish the script by Ashley Robinson had been more of a tone poem to match the staging. The vignettes all rolled out as remembered, beautifully performed by a tight ensemble – Harrison Ball as a deep-feeling Ennis Del Mar, Jack Cameron Kay as a bounding Jack Twist, Cordelia Dewdney as a tortured Alma, Thomas Cox doing exceptionally differentiated character work as Joe Aguirre/Bill/Jack’s father, and Kat Eggleston and Alina Jenine Taber on double duty as angelic vocalists in the band and as Jack’s bereft mother and fractured wife Lureen respectively.

If only the workmanlike script had given these brilliant performers liberty to be even more dreamlike and ephemeral. The raked stage at Chicago Shakespeare with set pieces rising and falling from the floor, surrounded by dense brush evoking the Wyoming plains, made us feel as if we were peering into Ennis’ subconscious, but the more literal quality of the scenes themselves at times fought the ethereal setting. 

The absolutely exquisite touch of a live bluegrass band, fronted by Eggleston and performing Emmylou Harris-style compositions by Dan Gillespie Sells, created an immersive and haunting atmosphere. As if the AM radio that kept these lonely cowboys company during their bleak work guarding an unruly herd of sheep had become a kind of Greek chorus, offering commentary on the heartbreak of a love in 1963 that was utterly forbidden, particularly in such rural environs.

The production was deftly, sensitively, efficiently directed by Jonathan Butterell. Special recognition to the lighting design by David Finn, sound design by Christopher Shutt, scenic and costume design by Tom Pye, fight and intimacy coordination by Zev Steinrock, and music direction by Jacob Yates, and their teams. Their stagecraft was exemplary, enveloping the actors and audience in a moment both oppressive and liberating as the text requires. Truly remarkable work.

Should this stage adaptation find its way into your neck of the woods, run, don’t walk to see it. We find ourselves in an era where lived truth is more important than ever. As Ennis observes, “If you can’t fix it, you gotta stand it.”

 

 

“His LinkedIn presence is bold, consistent, and human.” Thank you, Oktopost, for naming me one of your B2B Social’s Rising 30

Thank you, Oktopost, Colin Day, Daniel Kushner 🐙, Hannah Curran, Jennifer Gutman, and the rest of your fabulous team for this lovely recognition!

“Roy Sexton is the CMO at Vedder, a law firm, and he’s doing things with B2B social that consumer brands would look at with genuine respect. His LinkedIn presence is bold, consistent, and human. He’s a recognized voice in the profession, and a practitioner who has spent years proving that professional services does not have to be invisible or boring on social. He’s a pioneer in the truest sense, and the B2B social community knows it.”

View the full list of B2B Social’s Rising 30 here.

More about the recognition: “B2B social media is no longer a supporting act. Across every sector of the global economy, the practitioners who do it well are shaping how organizations build trust, thought leadership, and pipeline. The B2B Social’s Rising 30 Class of 2026 was created to find them, recognize them, and put their work in front of the audience it deserves.

“From hundreds of eligible nominees submitted by the B2B social community, 30 standout social media leaders were selected who are raising the bar for what B2B social media can look like. They work across diverse industries, from investment banking and industrial manufacturing to companies ranging from high-growth startups to Fortune 500 enterprises. What connects them isn’t the size of their following or the scale of their budget. It’s the quality of their thinking, their creativity, the consistency of their work, and the genuine communities they’ve built around it.

“B2B social has a recognition problem. It’s one of the most undervalued functions in modern marketing, and the people doing it best are rarely credited by the wider business community that benefits most from their work. The Rising 30 is a deliberate attempt to change that. It’s not a popularity contest. It’s not a customer list. It’s a nomination-driven effort to surface the practitioners, thinkers, and builders doing the most purposeful, credible work in the field, wherever they work, in whatever sector, at whatever scale.”

Join us July 23 for the American Bar Association panel “Beyond Rainbow Logos: Centering LGBTQ+ Voices Who Fuel Innovation, Equity, and Better Lawyering.” Happy Pride!

Just in time for Pride month! Thrilled to be part of this candid, pragmatic upcoming panel conversation from the American Bar Association. Hey, look, ma, I made it!

Honored to join our moderator Gerald Waltman III and fellow panelists m boulette and Kara Ingelhart Tuesday, July 23 for “Beyond Rainbow Logos: Centering LGBTQ+ Voices Who Fuel Innovation, Equity, and Better Lawyering.”

Thank you, Malcolm ‘Skip’ Harsch, for the opportunity and the new friendship (and to Rachel Clar, Esq. for connecting me and Skip in the first place!).

This is a topic near and dear to my heart and to my (long) lived experience as a #legalmarketing professional and as a human being.

You can register here.

“Bring me my TV pantsuit.” Masters of the Universe and Stop! That! Train!

Happy Pride, y’all! I have a tendency to schedule my filmgoing in obsessive bursts. If I see a block of time and can figure out how to squeeze two movies in *just so.* I do it. This has resulted in some nightmarish double feature pairings. For example, Noah and The Grand Budapest Hotel (I’m still nauseous from that experience) or Coraline and The Reader (that one caused pure psychological whiplash). This brings me to what will likely be the (inadvertently) gayest double feature I’ve navigated: Masters of the Universe and Stop! That! Train! Loin cloths and drag queens and Sarah Michelle Gellar, oh my!

I’m a child of the 80s. When we got HBO for the first time (maybe around 1982 or so?), you’d get a little glossy booklet every month, teeming with entertainment ‘round the clock. There were always one or two big splashy blockbusters to draw you in, and then … a whole LOT of d-list 80s dreck. I would dutifully circle every showing of Star Wars and ET and The Neverending Story but also Xanadu and Krull and Flash Gordon. And I would watch them all over and over and over and over. I suppose that’s why my brain is a block of day-glo Swiss cheese to this day.

Masters is an unapologetic throwback to those (very) financially unsuccessful fantasy films of the Reagan era – Flash Gordon particularly – and Stop! That! Train! is essentially (also unapologetically) Airplane! but with drag queens … on a train. And with that low bar to entry in mind, both work reasonably well. Ten year old Roy would have watched both movies 98 times in one summer while my horrified parents stared on in disbelief they’d raised a child with such dodgy taste. Fifty three year old Roy will have seen both of these movies once, will likely buy the DVDs for “collecting sake,” but admittedly was neither fully transported nor utterly delighted by either. Try as I might to tap into my misspent youth while watching these films, I just couldn’t get there.

And that’s a shame. I don’t know if that says more about me, the fraught cultural moment in which we perpetually find ourselves, or the performative goofiness that afflicts both films. It’s clear that Travis Knight (director of Masters) and Adam Shankman (director of Stop! That! Train!) are as informed by the same oeuvre (can I even really call it that?) as I. But neither of them quite land the oomph to bring these influences full circle in a way that acknowledges the past while connecting with arguably savvier audiences today.

Masters clearly aspires to have its cake and eat it too (a la Barbie), simultaneously lampooning and celebrating its source material while weaving in a modern message about overcoming toxic masculinity with empathy and heart and self-effacement. But unlike BarbieMasters is missing a certain sparkle or joie de vivre. I wish I could pinpoint where it misses the mark. Perhaps in aping the very plodding structure of a throwback like Krull, the film kneecaps itself by tying a nostalgic boat anchor around its neck. Sorry (not sorry) for the mixed metaphor. The visuals are there, the Easter eggs are plentiful, and Nicholas Galitzine does a bang-up job as the follicularly blessed, muscle bound, fish-out-of-water protagonist He-Man. Honestly, he deserved a much punchier script to match the gorgeous production design.

As for Stop! That! Train!, RuPaul is (naturally) the best thing in a film that likely should have just been a hourlong special episode of Drag Race. While I kept a stupid smile on my face for the entire film, I only laughed out loud about 3.5 times. And those guffaws were when the criminally underused Ru appeared onscreen. I would giddily watch two hours of RuPaul strutting around the White House as the sassy glamazon President Gagwell. Dealing with the “national crisis” of a runaway train barreling through literally EVERY possible calamitous weather front in the meteorologist’s lexicon, Ru commands “bring me my TV pantsuit” as she’s about to address an angry press corps. I *may* have snorted at the line delivery. Ru is an utter delight, and I wish the filmmakers, rather than go the tired route of Mad! Magazine-style spoof, would have written a sharp satire about our tumultuous political age centered around the spicy, stylish delivery of Ru. Le sigh.

If wishes were horses, we all would ride. Or something like that.

Better luck next time, Hollywood. Maybe pair President Gagwell with He-Man for the sequel. And actually write a decent script for them both.

Four muses alight in Chicago: engineer (Nini Coco), actor (Myki Meeks), comedian (Darlene Mitchell), dancer (Juicy Love Dion) … a fab night of joy and inclusion at Roscoe’s

Caption: “A thorn between four roses.” Confessional … season 18 of RuPaul’s Drag Race is the first full season I watched consistently (and obsessed over). #badgay. My friend and #LMA23 co-conspirator Athena Dion was a contestant this year, and I watched to show my support of a truly dear human being. (Which also resulted in too many weekly parental Friday night texts, letting her know how proud I was of her, rhapsodizing about every fabulous thing she did and mothering the quintessential MOTHER.)

Juicy Love Dion

But here’s the thing … I became so invested in the entire cast. How genuine they all were and are. How they looked out for each other. How they brought light and humor and refreshing silliness to our homes every week.

Darlene Mitchell

So, when I learned Roscoe’s Tavern was hosting the “final four” (no, NOT basketball) finalists Monday night for a meet-and-greet and performance, I snapped up a ticket and figured out what in the heck I could wear/bring to go from work to fabulosity. I couldn’t compete but I wanted to hold my own.

Nini Coco

This quartet – Nini Coco, Myki Meeks, Darlene Mitchell, and Athena’s drag (grand)daughter Juicy Love Dion – represent four of the best aspects of queer joy … four “muses,” if you will (you’re welcome, Athena): the ingenious engineer, the empathic actor, the buoyant comedian, and the ebullient dancer. And they were every bit as lovely and kind IRL as onscreen.

Myki Meeks

“Authenticity” is a word thrown about with far too much abandon these days, but when you experience it firsthand as I did Monday night, it is a rare and beautiful gift. As I told fellow (recovering) Hoosier Darlene, if I’d had role models like this to inspire me years ago when I was finding my way in this (gay) world, it would made everything so much easier, so much safer.

Visibility matters. Representation matters. Community matters.

Kara Mel D’Ville

Kudos to emcees Kara Mel D’Ville and Batty Davis for slaying all night (am I using that right?). And special thanks to Batty for the lovely chat as she waited “backstage” (the alley behind Roscoe’s 😅 … oh, the glamour!) as I was heading home. A fellow Michigander! My hubby John always says, “EVERYONE has a Michigan connection!” He’s not wrong.

Batty Davis and moi

Gobsmacked! Thrilled to be nominated as one of Oktopost’s “B2B Social’s Rising 30”

Thrilled to be nominated as one of Oktopost’s “B2B Social’s Rising 30.”

About the recognition:

“We’re back to celebrate the voices shaping B2B social: the ones sparking conversations, sharing bold ideas, and keeping us inspired. What makes a B2B Social Rising Star?

B2B Pro: They work in social media for a B2B brand.

Community locked in: They’ve built an impressive LinkedIn community of engaged followers.

Strong content game: They consistently share smart, valuable, and/or entertaining content to their personal profile.

Comments are poppin’: Their comment section is where the best discussions happen.

Nailed their brand: They’ve mastered building their personal brand and career on LinkedIn.”

Needless to say I’m flattered … and a bit gobsmacked! Thank you, Colin Day, for the inclusion and for alerting me!

“May the bridges I burn light my way.” The Devil Wears Prada 2

“You can’t go home again.” A sentiment oft attributed to the author Thomas Wolfe. But dang if Hollywood doesn’t try. We live in a media cacophony of reboots and reinventions, sequels and prequels, all infinitely merchandisable with a sea of product placements and corporate synergies. There is seemingly no IP at this point that cannot be franchised into its own universe of spin-off narratives and monetizations.

Which brings us to The Devil Wears Prada 2. Miranda strikes back. I’m happy to report that in this (rare?) instance Prada 2 is a nostalgic cash grab with something to say. And a raison d’etre. Plus, it’s just a darn good bit of fun, kicking off the summer ’26 blockbuster season in frothy, fizzy fashion (with a neatly nestled poison pill of cultural commentary).

I’m likely the only person who is going to invoke Joker: Folie a Deux in my review here, but like that much-maligned film (I think I’m literally the only person who liked Joker 2 … ah well), Devil Wears Prada 2 presents a deftly redemptive arc, offsetting elements of the original film that haven’t aged terribly well (e.g. body-shaming, rampant careerism, classism, low-key misogyny) with a wry and dare I say winsome self-awareness. It’s a nifty bookend to the original film … and hopefully Disney/20th Century Studios can resist the greedy urge to force a trilogy down our collective throats. Although I suspect that will be an offer the cast and crew can’t refuse.

Returning director David Frankel and screenwriters Aline Brosh McKenna and Lauren Weisberger (author of the original novels on which all of this is based) wisely lean into providing a narrative framework tantamount to cinematic comfort food. All of the story beats burned into the consciousness of viewers who *may* have watched the first installment, say, 918 times are basically there: protagonist in desperate need of job finds herself in shark infested waters to pay the rent; a MacGuffin gauntlet is thrown to test said protagonist’s mettle (unpublished Harry Potter in the first, white whale of a feature interview subject in the second); protagonist starts to squeak into the inner circle; a fabulous European fashion extravaganza yields palace intrigue; the very industry featured throughout the film finds itself in existential peril; a double (triple?) cross puts everything right again; and just when you think all are happy and settled, there is a limousine-set exchange that makes you realize corporate America is a delicious jungle, baby (always has been, always will be). Finis.

How’s that for a spoiler/non-spoiler summation?

The core four from the original film – Meryl Streep, Anne Hathaway, Stanley Tucci, and Emily Blunt – are all dynamite (duh), bringing grit and wit, joy and gravitas to material that otherwise would float forgettably into the ether in less capable hands. New adds to the cast – Justin Theroux, Lucy Liu, Kenneth Branagh, Lady Gaga (!?) – have far less to do but make the most of limited screen time, running just shy of becoming a red flag for overstuffed sequelitis (Sex and the City 2 … I’m looking at you).

There are some inevitably clunky moments. Twenty years passing between installments will do that to a franchise. You can practically hear the plot-point gears grinding against one another to justify bringing the old band back together, but once the momentum is established, the whole enterprise feels like a cozily familiar cerulean blue sweater.

But as the world keeps burning, I suppose we all need entertainment that comforts and critiques simultaneously. Some have argued that Miranda Priestly has “lost her edge” in this latest production. I beg to differ. With time and the inevitable repeat viewings, the glitz and the flash of this sequel will retreat, and the film’s incisive assessment of the precarious moment we all find ourselves in culturally will be that much more evident.

We are buffeted by an increasingly fragmented, misleading, manipulative media landscape. Journalism dies a thousand deaths every day. Art and beauty are succumbing to an army of algorithms and ’bots shaping public discourse in spiraling, reductive ways. The authority of singular visionaries helping curate taste and style has been lost in a sea of “influencers.” Devil Wears Prada 2 straps on its Louboutins and runs headlong into this miasma with a hardy “may the bridges I burn light my way.”

Unleash hell, indeed.

P.S. I was in London last month and have been remiss in giving a shout out to the theatre scene there. Sometimes, honestly, I just want to go see something and NOT feel like I have homework to do after. That said, I took in, yes, Devil Wears Prada The Musical at the Dominion Theatre, starring fabulous Vanessa Williams with a score by Sir Elton John. Indeed, it’s yet another reinvention – first a book, then a movie, now a musical – but it’s also damn delightful. Imagine the relentless pep of Legally Blonde the Musical with an arch side of the chilly Teutonic pop of American Psycho the Musical. Rodgers and Hammerstein wept. Hopefully, the show will make its way stateside for you to form your own opinion. That’s all.

P.P.S. Oh, wait. That’s NOT all. I also saw Moulin Rouge the Musical at the Piccadilly Theatre and Disney’s Hercules the Musical at the Drury Lane Theatre. It’s not lost on me now that everything I saw was an adaptation/expansion of a beloved film. I sense a theme! Moulin Rouge is by far the stronger offering, with a louchely immersive theatrical experience and a clever updating to the pop/rock pastiche score that will bring smiles of recognition (and a pang of heartache or two). Hercules is gorgeously staged, and the Supremes-esque gospel Greek chorus deserve their own (better) show. Go for the spectacle, stay for the muses, and try not to think about the hodge-podge book too much. Now THAT’s all.

Join me for the “Elevate Your Impact: Innovative Strategies To Help Your Lawyers Win The Work They Want” panel at #LMA26 in New Orleans + enjoy this recap of London’s #InvolveGala2026

New Orleans is calling! Join us at #LMA26, April 20-22, where the Legal Marketing Association – LMA International will be sharing bold ideas, transformative insights and the power of storytelling. Let’s learn and connect!

Register: https://bit.ly/3W8mq4H

Thrilled to be joining our moderator (and, yes, childhood neighbor!) Mo Bunnell of Bunnell Idea Group (BIG) alongside fellow panelists K&L Gates’ Craig Budner, Freshfields’ Bryonie Palmer Byers, Axinn, Veltrop & Harkrider LLP’s Julie Chodos, and Boston Consulting Group (BCG)’s Erin Carlson for “Elevate Your Impact: Innovative Strategies To Help Your Lawyers Win The Work They Want” on Tuesday, April 21 at 1:30 pm central.

The best BD and marketing professionals don’t just support their lawyers—they transform how those lawyers win work. But creating that transformation requires fresh thinking and proven strategies you won’t find in the usual playbook.

In this high-energy session, four successful leaders will compete to share their most effective ideas—the strategies that have genuinely elevated their own impact. The best part? This will be FUN. The leaders will be sharing their ideas in a game-show style format where the winner will get a special price!

You’ll walk away energized with 10+ new strategies you can implement immediately.

When you’re advising your lawyers proactively—not just taking orders—you become indispensable. And that’s when you can write your own ticket.

Learning Outcomes:

Discover new business development strategies from leading law firms that expand what’s possible for your lawyers and your impact.

Select from the 10+ approaches shared that will best fit the lawyers you support and the growth challenges you’re solving for.

Implement battle-tested ideas immediately to transform your role from order-taker to indispensable growth partner.

P.S. What a night celebrating what makes each and every one of us unique! Proud to be one of INvolve People’s Outstanding 100 LGBTQ+ Executives internationally, but even prouder to have been in the room the evening of March 20 for the #InvolveGala2026 with ALL of the incredible leaders recognized for their work in advocacy, allyship, equity, and representation.

Thank you, Suki Sandhu and team, for your vision and heart and tireless work. You make this world better indeed! Love you!

“My theatre background has been incredibly useful—from understanding an audience and landing a message to the finer points of production and project management.” A Life of Authenticity and Performance: Meet Roy Sexton and John Mola … St. John Neighbors Magazine March cover story

Thank you, St. John Neighbors’ publisher Diane Lee Jortner, writer Janet Woodward, and photographer Ginnie Wilsman Lange, for your kindness and for this cover story opportunity! You have been so lovely to work with, and we are incredibly honored to be featured in this way. Thank you for all you do for our community!

All professional photos by Ginnie Wilsman Lange.

A Life of Authenticity and Performance: Meet Roy Sexton and John Mola

By Janet Woodward

For Roy Sexton and his husband, John Mola, life in St. John is a beautiful blend of professional achievement, artistic passion, and a deep-seated commitment to authentic living. After moving to the community exactly one year ago, the couple has found more than just a house; they’ve found a neighborhood where they can truly be themselves.

 

A New Chapter in St. John

Roy and John’s journey to Northwest Indiana was sparked by Roy’s career. In late 2024, Roy was recruited to join Vedder law firm in Chicago as their Chief Marketing Officer. Seeking a location that offered easy access to the city while remaining close to family—Roy’s father, Don, lives in the Fort Wayne area—the couple set their sights on St. John.

They fell in love with their new home here for a somewhat unique reason: the previous owners were avid Star Trek fans. While the memorabilia didn’t come with the house, the “die was cast,” and they knew they had found their place.

In August 2025, John’s father passed away and they helped John’s mother also move into their neighborhood nearby, so the family can be close. 

“Our neighbors have been so welcoming,” Roy shares. “It’s a lovely community with people who are fun, genuinely care about each other, and aren’t afraid to be their authentic selves. That’s all we could want”.

 

From the Stage to the Boardroom

Roy’s professional path is as colorful as a Broadway playbill. A graduate of Wabash College with a double major in English and theatre, he also holds a master’s degree in theatre history and criticism from Ohio State. While he later earned an executive MBA from the University of Michigan, Roy credits his theatre background as the secret to his marketing success.

“My theatre background has been incredibly useful—from understanding an audience and landing a message to the finer points of production and project management,” he explains.

His career has spanned healthcare and law, leading to his current role as CMO at Vedder, where he recently oversaw a refreshed brand and website launch. Roy is also a respected leader in the Legal Marketing Association, serving as their international president in 2023.

 

A Commitment to Visibility

Roy’s leadership is deeply rooted in his lived experience as a member of the LGBTQ+ community. Growing up in Indiana as an only child, he didn’t always find meaningful acceptance. Today, he leads openly and authentically, believing that representation is “not symbolic—it is catalytic”.

His advocacy has not gone unnoticed. Roy was named a Notable LGBTQ+ Leader by Crain’s Detroit Business in 2021 and has been recognized on the INvolve Outstanding 100 LGBTQ+ Executives Role Model List for three consecutive years. In 2024, he even hosted a digital interview series, All the World’s YOUR Stage, which focused on how embracing identity strengthens both performance and culture.

 

Life at Home: Pups, Cars, and Boy Bands

The Sexton-Mola household is shared with three beloved rescue dogs: 13-year-old black lab Duncan and two spunky Chihuahua-mixes, Hudson and Henry J. Roy notes the hilarious dynamic of the 7-pound Hudson lining up to howl alongside the 60-pound Duncan. Hudson is particularly attached to a “filthy and patched” stuffed mummy toy that he prizes above all else.

When they aren’t managing the “chorus” of rescue pups, Roy and John enjoy a few quirky hobbies. They are surprisingly dedicated fans of 98 Degrees, having attended so many concerts that the band members now recognize them by name.

John is the family’s resident car enthusiast. He once claimed to have the fastest PT Cruiser in North America and has recently restored Roy’s late mother’s 1994 forest green Pontiac Grand Am GT—affectionately known in the family as the “Dead Mother Car”. Roy’s mother, Susie Sexton, was a well-regarded columnist, and both she and Roy have published books of their work.

 

A Heart for the Neighborhood

Through the years they spent many summers making memories at DisneyWorld with John’s sister Lori and her children Gabby and Andrew.  Since Roy and John had never visited the resort when they were children, they insisted on taking the kids on every ride and attraction, even when the kids weren’t interested. Roy says they nearly missed an important dinner reservation at Crystal Palace by watching Carousel of Progress for 45 minutes.  

They also traveled to St. Augustine for a great vacation that they would like to repeat.

Roy and John are now focused on creating new traditions in St. John. From exploring local favorites in Crown Point and Valparaiso to simply chatting with neighbors, they feel they “won the lottery” with their new community.

“Thank you for your kindness and for welcoming us with such open arms,” Roy says to his neighbors. “Pulling up stakes and moving to a completely new area made us nervous, but everyone being so genuinely invested in getting to know us has meant more than I can properly express”.

Neighborly Note: Roy is still looking for his “theatre home” in the area. If any local theatre groups are looking for a “slightly over the hill singing actor,” be sure to give him a call!