“It signals to the wider business community the real power of authenticity, and of people brave enough to bring their whole selves to work and speak openly about it.” Yours truly named to INvolve’s Outstanding LGBTQ+ Executive Role Models list for FOURTH (!) consecutive year

My deepest thanks to Suki Sandhu OBE and INvolve – The Inclusion People for this remarkable recognition – FOUR years in a row! I may faint! But MORE importantly thank you, Suki and team, for all you do to celebrate all diverse communities, elevate leaders, and champion the power of inclusion in the workplace and in society. What you do matters … so damn much!

Check out The Sun-Times News coverage here.

View full list here.

Roy Sexton, Chief Marketing Officer of Vedder and 2023 International President of the Legal Marketing Association (LMA), has been named to the INvolve Outstanding 100 LGBTQ+ Executives Role Model List for 2026, supported by YouTube. It is the fourth consecutive year Sexton has been recognized, making him one of the most consistently honored leaders on the list from the legal industry.

The recognition arrives as visibility at the very top of business remains thin. INvolve’s 2025 analysis found that just 2% of FTSE 100 CEOs and 5% of Fortune 100 CEOs are publicly out as LGBTQ+, compared with estimates that 6–10% of the population identifies as LGBTQ+. INvolve warned that the gains made since 2015 are fragile as companies scale back inclusion programs.

“As a young gay man growing up in Indiana in the ’80s and ’90s, seeing a list like this would have meant the world to me,” said Sexton. “It would have shown me that there is a place for people like me — that we belong. Visibility and representation aren’t nice-to-haves; they’re essential. Recognition like this goes far beyond personal buzz. It signals to the wider business community the real power of authenticity, and of people brave enough to bring their whole selves to work and speak openly about it. I’m proud to be recognized for the fourth year running, and hopeful that in some small way I can pass that message forward.”

View full list here.

Why INvolve selected Sexton

In its citation, INvolve described Sexton’s appointment as CMO of Vedder as “a significant milestone in his career and in LGBTQ+ leadership visibility within the legal marketing industry.” INvolve highlighted that he:

  • Models visibility at the top. As an openly gay executive, he leads a diverse marketing team and builds belonging through mentorship and everyday authenticity, helping younger LGBTQ+ professionals see themselves in senior roles.
  • Drives measurable culture change. As co-chair of LMA’s DEI Shared Interest Group, he has doubled engagement in the association’s inclusion-focused town halls.
  • Set the tone for an industry. His 2023 LMA presidency established a standard of safety and belonging at that year’s annual conference, reflecting his belief that visibility is a leadership responsibility.
  • Amplifies inclusive leadership. Through interviews, panels and his digital series, he positions inclusion as a strategic business priority.

Among global business leaders

INvolve’s lists span sectors and continents. The top-ranked 2025 Outstanding Executives were David Furnish, CEO of Rocket Entertainment Group; Travis Torrence, U.S. Head of Legal at Shell; Jen Carter, Global Head of Technology at Google.org; Kit Morey, VP and Commissioning Editor, Unscripted Original Content at Paramount | Channel 5; and Shamina Singh, Founder and President of the Mastercard Center for Inclusive Growth and Executive Vice President, Sustainability at Mastercard. The 2025 Outstanding Advocates list was led by Kenton Jarvis, CEO of easyJet, and Anne Aslett, CEO of the Elton John AIDS Foundation.

Founder & CEO of INvolve, Suki Sandhu OBE, says, “I’m so thrilled to be celebrating this global group of trailblazing Executives, Future Leaders and Advocates who are working to ensure LGBTQ+ individuals in the workplace can thrive. All the individuals featured in our Outstanding Role Model Lists supported by YouTube are championing inclusion and leveraging their expertise and knowledge to drive impactful initiatives and strategic change within their organizations. It’s vital that LGBTQ+ employees across global organizations can succeed and achieve career success, and these Role Models are essential drivers of change who are smashing barriers to progress. We could not effect change without them leading the way.” 

About the Outstanding Role Model Lists

The Outstanding LGBTQ+ Role Model Lists, supported by YouTube, celebrate LGBTQ+ business leaders and advocates who are breaking down barriers and building more inclusive workplaces worldwide. Honorees are recognized for their influence and impact on inclusion and do not work professionally in diversity, equity and inclusion roles. The lists launched in 2013.

About Roy Sexton

Roy Sexton is Chief Marketing Officer of Vedder, where he leads the firm’s marketing strategy and oversees all marketing projects and personnel. He brings more than 25 years of experience across industries, including nearly 15 years in legal marketing at prominent global firms, with expertise in public relations, marketing planning, business development strategy, digital and social media, attorney onboarding and practice development.

Sexton joined LMA’s international board in 2020 and served as International President in 2023. He has been recognized by Crain’s, INvolve and Corp! Magazine for his leadership, particularly as an LGBTQ+ executive, and has served on the boards of Michigan charitable organizations including Mosaic Youth Theatre of Detroit and Ronald McDonald House Charities. He holds degrees from Wabash College, The Ohio State University and the University of Michigan.

About INvolve

INvolve is a consultancy and global network driving diversity and inclusion in business. Through advisory solutions, awareness workshops and talent development programs, INvolve drives cultural change and creates inclusive workplaces where everyone can succeed. It publishes annual role model lists celebrating business leaders and future leaders who are breaking down barriers at work and inspiring the next generation of diverse talent.

Additional coverage here

“Showing up in Technicolor, be seen, see others.” Yours truly joins the legendary Deb Knupp on The HX Collective Podcast

I joined Deb Knupp on the HX Collective podcast, and my episode is now live. If you’re thinking about what it means to lead, live and show up more fully – this one’s for you. Thank you, Deb, for the opportunity to tell my story and, Jennifer Tompkins, for your glorious production support. 

Links to view/listen:

In this episode, Deb Knupp sits down with Roy Sexton, Chief Marketing Officer Vedder and one of legal marketing’s most visible advocates for showing up authentically, for a conversation that, as Deb puts it, feels like it started before they even hit record.

“Tell people what they will mean to you in the moment it will mean something to them.”

Roy has spent more than 25 years in marketing leadership, including nearly 15 years in legal marketing at some of the industry’s most prominent firms, and served as International President of the Legal Marketing Association. But this conversation isn’t really about marketing. It’s about the strategy, and the sincerity, behind telling people what they mean to you, and why Roy has built a career, a community, and a life around doing exactly that, out loud, in Technicolor, often in a Sesame Street shirt. The throughline is a piece of advice from Roy’s late mother: tell people what they will mean to you in the moment it will mean something to them, not at the funeral, not at the retirement party, and not with a Bundt cake that shows up right when everyone else’s does. Roy traces that instinct through a childhood spent making bullies laugh so they wouldn’t hurt him, a defining moment on stage at a Legal Marketing Association conference where he sang alongside a drag performer to make space for people who needed it, and a hard-won distinction between being nice and being kind. What emerges is a case for treating small, unscheduled moments, a comment on LinkedIn, a walk to someone’s desk, a text after a hard week, as the real work of building trust, long before anyone needs to cash it in.

Highlights:

The Bundt cake rule Roy learned from his mother: show up with support a month later, when people are alone with their feelings, not just in the first flood of casseroles.

Legal Marketing Association keynote where Roy sang “Born This Way” alongside drag performer Athena Dion, and what it told a room full of allies, and skeptics, about who the conference was really for.

The difference between nice and kind, and why the kindest thing is sometimes the direct thing, delivered with care.

Why business development can happen in the coffee line: Roy’s case for quick, genuine touchpoints, a comment, a reshare, a “saw your kid’s off to college,” over five-hour golf outings.

About Our Guest:

Roy Sexton is Chief Marketing Officer at Vedder, where he leads the firm’s marketing strategy, business development, and brand positioning. He brings more than 25 years of marketing leadership to the role, with nearly 15 of those years focused specifically on legal marketing at some of the country’s most prominent firms. A longtime volunteer leader in the field, Roy served on the international board of the Legal Marketing Association beginning in 2020 and was elected its International President for 2023 to 2024. His advocacy work extends well beyond the office: Roy has been recognized by Crain’s, INvolve, and Corp! Magazine for his leadership within the LGBTQ+ community, and he serves on the boards of Mosaic Youth Theatre of Detroit and the Ronald McDonald House Charities of Michigan. He is also, unmistakably, one of the most enthusiastic and generous connectors in legal marketing, a trait he traces straight back to his mother and grandfather.

About the HX Collective:

The HX Collective explores the human experience through three lenses: work, relationships, and self, through raw, authentic conversations rooted in human-centered design. Each episode offers gripping stories, thought-provoking discussion, and concrete tools that help you rethink your relationship with distress and strengthen your whole human experience.

 

“But if there isn’t time to breathe, mistakes are made, anxiety sets in, and teams never bring lasting, meaningful change.” Feature on yours truly by Aleksander Tomalski and Counsel Collective

Thank you, Aleksander Tomalski and Counsel Collective, for this absolutely lovely feature. Hands down, this is one of the damned nicest articles anyone has ever written about me. I truly feel seen. Someone please take note … read this this whole thing at my eulogy one day! 😅

Read article here.

Hopefully, other legal leaders, marketers, business development professionals, humans will find some inspiration in the thoughts, concepts, and experiences detailed here. And even more importantly, my dream is that more and more young people still deciding what to do in life will see in this piece what a desirable and rewarding career path legal marketing can be.

To my dear friends Iris Jones, Diana Lauritson, Jenna Schiappacasse, and Ashley Stenger, what you said about me here has touched my soul in ways words can’t properly express. In my deep down, only child heart, I’ve always (erroneously) felt myself to be a perpetual outsider in life, practically phobic about overstaying my welcome anywhere. I know that’s anything but true. However, reading what you said about me was truly a tonic for my neurotic inner saboteur. 🥹

As Alex writes in the article, “Trust, in his telling, is built by honoring what came before, learning what actually drives the people already there, bringing forward opportunities that fit them, and then following through on what you said you would do.”

“I’m just so happy the sad man has friends.” Spider-Man: Brand New Day

Spider-Man: Brand New Day is as close as Hollywood has ever come to replicating the true mainstream comic book reading experience, while still remaining artfully cinematic. And I’ve seen a LOT of superhero movies.

Like a thoughtfully developed six issue comic book story arc, the film is episodic but never stilted. Events and moments and guest heroes flow thoughtfully, naturally, intentionally, logically from one to the next.

This also feels like the first time the Marvel Cinematic Universe has fully realized the promise of its integrated concept, moving away from EVENT FILM-thinking where cameos of heroes and villains from prior films pop up willy nilly (perhaps chiefly to sell action figures and t-shirts) toward a deeply immersive world where common sense and natural order dictate superhero interactions. 

This tracks given that Brand New Day’s director Destin Daniel Cretton also helmed the equally winning, warm, funny, poignant Disney+ Marvel series Wonder Man. Cretton just really gets it, leveraging all the toys in service to narrative and heart, first and foremost.

The plot picks up deftly from Jon Watts’ excellent Spider-Man: No Way Home (a film that was EPIC!, not necessarily to its detriment but definitely with commercial designs sharing the driver’s seat with more artistic notions). After a veritable multi-verse of Spider-Men (and villains) in that film converge to make Tom Holland’s MCU Peter Parker’s life a living hell, Parker convinces Dr. Strange (an arch and world-weary Benedict Cumberbatch) to erase all knowledge of Parker’s existence and secret identity from the world, including those who know and love Parker most.

Brand New Day could have ended up a mopey slog as Parker tries to navigate life without the safety net of friends and family, notably his girlfriend MJ (the soulful and sparkling Zendaya) and his best friend Ned (Jacob Batalon, still reveling in his second banana status but bringing more nuanced and layered reactions this go ‘round). The film does a fine job balancing the tragedy of Parker’s isolation with the whiz bang pyrotechnics of a superhero using high-flying crimebusting as the ultimate coping mechanism. Yes, the first quarter of the film is filled with a literal rogues’ gallery of lesser-known Spider-Man villains but it never feels indulgent. We get our popcorn and eat it too.

Into this vigilante mayhem, a shadowy new antagonist enters the scene, nameless and faceless (at first), jumping telepathically from body to body of one innocent bystander after another, eluding our wall-crawler as the unknown villain executes a masterful scheme to infiltrate government agency Damage Control, a group ostensibly helping superheroes by mitigating the “damage” potential of other supes less heroically inclined. You can likely predict where this is going … but the film gets there in a way that is refreshingly unpredictable.

On top of Parker’s pre-existing woes, his arachnid-infused DNA starts to mutate (that will be important later methinks), confounding him with sensory overload and organic web-shooters that have a life of their own. As Parker attempts to unravel both the mystery of his failing powers and his insidious new opponent, he enlists the aid of Bruce Banner/The Hulk (the ever-dependable Mark Ruffalo, a cozy woolen sweater of an actor in all the best ways), Frank Castle/The Punisher (a delightfully low-key unhinged Jon Bernthal, who brings some of the film’s funniest moments in quintessential off-kilter buddy cop comedy schtick with Holland), and Yelena Belova/Black Widow (the dynamite Florence Pugh who takes her deadpan “Boris and Natasha/spy who came in from the cold” characterization to slyly hysterical new heights here).

At this point, you could be thinking (if you are one of the three people who HASN’T seen this film yet), “WOW, that sounds needlessly complicated and overstuffed.” And yet refreshingly, the movie is anything but. Each of the guest heroes has a distinct purpose to play, in commitment to the plot, moving it along logically, and with very neatly and distinctly drawn relationship ties to Parker. These characters aren’t just showing up to show up, kill time, or distract the audience. They enrich the film’s perspective and meaning, illustrating in part that Parker isn’t as alone as he fears himself to be and more importantly that none of us can save our world on our own. At one point, Belova observes in a video call with Parker, now reunited with Ned and MJ, “I’m just so happy the sad man has friends.” Trust me, you will laugh heartily when you hear how Pugh delivers that line.

The film is shot in gorgeous, golden light, never garish, evoking the look of a comic book in a dreamlike way, mirroring Parker’s lost state. The many, many, MANY fight scenes are never tedious as, again, they serve to propel Parker along his tortured path of reclamation and rediscovery and healing. The battles are choreographed and stylized to maximize Holland’s dance background. This is comic book mayhem staged as ballet.

Michael Giacchino turns in a score that is less burbling and percolating than he usually delivers. Awash in 80s synths, the soundtrack (also peppered with some fabulous pop rock deep cut needle drops) echoes, like a sweepingly symphonic, swirling stomach ache, the inescapable nightmare-scape in which Parker finds himself.

And I really, really, really don’t want to squelch the surprise around the film’s unseen telepathic assailant. Spoilers already abound on the internet – from the production team itself. The film has been released for nearly a month and half now. Nonetheless, I’m not going to reveal more than that a spiky and mournful Sadie Sink introduces a Marvel legend back into the MCU fold in a way that creates both heartbreak and feverish anticipation for the next 83.5 cinematic installments that are likely to come.

This is a film about finding oneself, and it could have devolved into a mess of maudlin cliches. It never does. That is in great part due to director Cretton’s empathic craftsmanship and especially to Holland’s heart-wrenching turn. Yet, Holland never loses the boyish adventuring joy he has always brought to the part. In some parallel universe, there would be serious Oscar conversations about the film and notably Holland’s performance. There were moments in the film where I found myself sobbing and giggling, practically simultaneously and utterly unexpectedly. THAT is rare and why I dearly love movies.

Dying is easy, comedy is hard. Comparably, keeping summer blockbuster butts in seats while also giving us a true hero’s journey from his shattered ground zero to his world-weary but hopeful affirmation, while still making us laugh and gasp, and, yes, marvel is a true high-wire act that deserves recognition. Doing so, while leaping and bounding through two-and-a-half hours in a red and blue leotard is nothing short of remarkable.

 

“Always travel with an emergency poem.” Jane Don’t wows in “Don’t Does America” at Chicago Improv

“I am strongly drawn to Camp, and almost as strongly offended by it. That is why I want to talk about it, and why I can. For no one who wholeheartedly shares in a given sensibility can analyze it; he can only, whatever his intention, exhibit it. … To talk about camp is therefore to betray it. If the betrayal can be defended, it will be for the edification it provides, or the dignity of the conflict it resolves.” – Susan Sontag, Notes on Camp

Too many people think they can do camp. They can’t. They really can’t. Sontag in her seminal work Notes on Camp defines camp as “a vision of the world in terms of style – but a particular kind of style. It is the love of the exaggerated, the ‘off’, of things-being-what-they-are-not” but does so with affection rather than mockery.

It’s that last part that people miss. Those who fail at camp arrogantly co-opt flippancy and disdain as a way of attempting to connect with an audience – as if we are all in on one contemptuous joke. That doesn’t work. At best it falls flat and rings hollow, and at worst it feels cruel and alienating.

Good camp is love, first and foremost – affection for the absurd as a lens for embracing and, yes, critiquing our common human condition.

At least that’s my pretentious opinion.

Jane Don’t does camp exquisitely. And when it’s done this well, the work is in an intoxicating league all its own.

Don’t just launched their Don’t Does America tour, and we took in one of the early stops in Chicago … well … Schaumburg at Chicago Improv, located in Woodfield Mall. Don’t made GREAT hay out of performing in a shopping mall in suburban America. And their exaggerated pronunciation of Schaaaaaummmberrrrhg was offered frequently as a wry punctuation mark on their self-effacing observations of life in America 2026.

The show is in essence a cabaret in the guise of a travelogue. Don’t learns some devastating news about fellow Drag Race Season 18 contestant and frenemy Athena Dion (who has a delightful, very Athena Dion cameo). Don’t is then sent on a cross-country scramble to fulfill their friend’s “final” wishes.  

(FULL DISCLOSURE: for those who have been anywhere in my orbit the past few years, Athena is a dear pal … after being forced to sing “Born This Way” with me at 8:30 in the morning in Hollywood, Florida, before 1500+ gobsmacked legal marketers in 2023. But I digress…).

This narrative conceit deftly ties up any loose ends for those Drag Race superfans presuming the show will be a six-months-past nostalgia trip/confessional. It ain’t. The “plot” (which is being charitable – and that is clearly by smart design) sends Don’t to a handful of landmark American cities, as conveyed by John Waters-meets-Sesame Street video projections.

In each locale Don’t features one of their many talents: e.g. stand-up comedy (Don’t really slays with comic timing that is impeccable – both zingers and dad jokes), lip syncing (Celine Dion wept), and Broadway belting, among others. I REALLY hope Don’t releases a digital EP of the catchy AF songs delivered during the show. All are textbook definitions of earworms, particularly the deliciously torturous title theme song which repeats about 83 times during the 90 minute run time.

Don’t does playfully land a well-deserved jab at the corporate entity that drag has become in the Mama Ru era, an epoch that has elevated and mainstreamed the art form while also turning it into a revenue machine for everyone but the queens. At a “slam poetry” night, Don’t savagely reads some verse that only a scatalogically inclined Mad Libs could love. “I always travel with an emergency poem,” Don’t intones. The punchline? The poesy in question is RuPaul’s less-than-stellar, sophomoric rap on pop icon Miley Cyrus’ forgotten ditty “Catitude,” with a side-eyed aside that the lyrics were written at the height of Ru’s popularity. Well played, Jane Don’t.

BUT the centerpiece of the production occurs when Don’t’s car “breaks down” in Amish country and, to gather cash to pay for the repairs, Don’t delivers an Amish … burlesque. Basically a riotously zany strip tease … in reverse. I dare not spoil too many of the visual jokes here because I haven’t laughed that hard in ages – but there IS a butter churn.

What Don’t does SO effectively is walk that razor’s edge of incisive satire and good-hearted sheer goofiness. At the meet and greet, I told Don’t that the show felt like Pee Wee’s Playhouse if hosted by Bette Midler. Don’t responded that they felt seen. 😊 But the deep cut cultural influences don’t stop there – Sophie Tucker (of course), Mae West, Kathy Griffin, Carol Burnett, Elaine Stritch, Rosalind Russell, Kay Thompson, Jonathan Winters, Angela Lansbury, Joan Rivers, Bea Arthur, Don Rickles, maybe even a smidge of Mary Tyler Moore and Marlo Thomas all seem to haunt the stage around Don’t. Plus, the show comes with a heaping slice of agitprop, Brechtian technique. (Lord, I REALLY do sound affected.)

Kindness and compassion, inclusion and equity are clearly critically important to Don’t. (Footnote: all merch is sourced to small businesses.) Don’t celebrates their Seattle-bred values, and all of those progressive queens who preceded Don’t. Don’t never shies away from clear-eyed analysis of the fraught times in which we are living, but, through the absurdity of the narrative’s circumstances and the brassily confident yet tenderly winsome way Don’t frames herself, you still walk away feeling hope. And THAT is the power of camp done properly, with a messy precision that welcomes us all in.

Don’t flashes a QR code at one point, encouraging attendees to donate to local causes near and dear that could use a helping hand. (Full list here.) Don’t features local queens at each whistle top – offering them extended featured moments. Yet it all still clearly remains Don’t’s world. And what a gift it is for us to be living in it.

Check the schedule and buy tickets here – and spring for the meet-and-greet if available. Don’t is as accessible and real offstage as on.

“Why the real work begins after the brand launches …” Yours truly joins Strawberry Nevill and Alissa Pinck for the Legal Marketing Association’s Strategies & Voices podcast episode “Back to Basics: Why Branding Is More Than a Visual Identity”

If you know me, you know I LOVE the Legal Marketing Association … I’ve never thought of myself as a “joiner of clubs” (although looking at my life, I am dead wrong about that!), but LMA is something special, a community that has literally lifted me up and transformed my career in ways I could have never anticipated.

So it’s a gift when wonderful souls like Strawberry Nevill of Strawberry Nevill Communication Consulting, and Alissa Pinck of Greenbaum, Rowe, Smith & Davis LLP and LMA’s own Anna Horner and Kristin Frankiewicz are kind enough to include me in a conversation near and dear to my heart – the power of brand to transform and galvanize culture – as an educational offering to our members and beyond.

You can listen to our chat “Back to Basics: Why Branding Is More Than a Visual Identity” here.

Strawberry did a fabulous job framing and leading the conversation on a topic recommended by Alissa. Hope you enjoy!

EPISODE DESCRIPTION: A successful brand is about much more than a logo, color palette, or website redesign. In this episode of the LMA Podcast, Strawberry Nevill (Strawberry Nevill Communication Consulting) sits down with Roy Sexton (Vedder) and Alissa Pinck (Greenbaum, Rowe, Smith & Davis) to explore the fundamentals of branding and how legal marketers can leverage brand strategy to drive business goals.

Drawing on decades of experience leading branding and rebranding initiatives, they discuss the critical role of internal alignment, stakeholder engagement, change management, and client feedback in creating a brand that people embrace and use.

Covering everything from rebranding to demonstrating value to firm leadership to measuring impact, this conversation offers valuable takeaways for legal marketing and business development professionals at any stage of their branding journey.

Tune in to learn:

  • Why branding is about the client experience, not just logos, websites, and visual identity.
  • How internal alignment can make or break a rebranding effort.
  • Common branding challenges legal marketers face and strategies for overcoming them.
  • How to build buy-in across large, complex organizations.
  • Why successful rebranding often requires significant change management and education.
  • The importance of tying brand initiatives to business goals and strategic priorities.
  • Why the real work begins after the brand launches and how to keep your brand alive and evolving.

Pop culture confessional … Madonna’s music has been the soundtrack of my life: All 16 of her studio albums (yeah, I said 16!), ranked by their respective influences upon me

POP CULTURE CONFESSIONAL …For some, this has been the summer of The Odyssey or of Spider-Man: Brand New Day, but for others of us, we can’t get enough of Madonna’s Confessions II. Madonna is my favorite … IYKYN … her music has literally soundtracked my life. What you might not know is that it wasn’t always this way.

I spent a summer in Japan in 1990. Back then, my love of comic books overtook all things. I bought a cassette copy of Madonna’s Dick Tracy-inspired I’m Breathless album from a street vendor in Tokyo, so I could have some music of home. It was only THEN that she became my totem and safe harbor.

With that album, all present and future loves converged: super heroes, Sondheim, and Madonna. And I never looked back. With this in mind, and alongside my present obsession with Madonna’s latest offering, I have been thinking about her studio albums all summer … 36 (!) summers after I bought that cassette of I’m Breathless which I still own and treasure. I have been reflecting on how her voice of independence and joy, of inclusion and, well, feistiness continues to impact and inform my worldview.

Soooo, here is my ranking of her studio albums … a list for which no one asked.

  1. I’m Breathless … see above … most people feel this isn’t a proper studio album, rather a soundtrack. I disagree. First, “Vogue.” Second, it may be her most fully realized, thematic offering. Utter fun. And a total left turn as only she could offer.
  2. Erotica … my sophomore year of college … still finding myself. Here comes this icy yet heartfelt, percolating indictment of American puritanical hypocrisy. I’m Breathless comforted my homesick soul. Erotica radicalized me.
  3. Confessions II … the summer of our discontent. Here she comes again, bringing her trademark (and healing) brew of intoxicating rhythms, honesty, critique, silliness, and provocation. Just when we all needed it most.
  4. American Life … many artists were low key canceled in the awkward oughts, daring to criticize the fraught post-9/11 moment for what we all so clearly now see that it was. Remember this assessment 25 years from the fraught moment in which we now find ourselves …
  5. Madame X … I love it when pop stars get deliriously weird. ‘Nuff said.
  6. Ray of Light … earth goddess meets Studio 54, post-Cobain. Per usual, no one saw this coming.
  7. Bedtime Stories … her Sex book apology tour was actually a hidden middle finger to the critics who tried to silence her, wrapped in the gauzy bubble wrap of mid-90s R&B. And Bjork.
  8. Like a Prayer … seminal work. Should be my #1. Isn’t. But … “Express Yourself,” “Oh Father,” “Dear Jessie,” “Till Death Do Us Part,” “Cherish,” “Keep It Together.” Like a Prayer walked so Confessions II could run. One of two albums on this list scored from my dad’s Columbia House/BMG Record Club memberships.
  9. Rebel Heart … so many good tracks. SO many tracks. SO many versions. The first time in Madonna history I lost the narrative of what was what. Here at #9 for the brilliant title cut. Inexplicably a song only released on deluxe special wazoo edition 912.
  10. Madonna … how it all began. “Holiday.” All you need. But if you need more … “Lucky Star” and “Borderline.”
  11. MDNA … she was divorced, and she was pissed … but she had a Super Bowl halftime to plan. Decisions, decisions.
  12. Music … this ranking and the next are likely controversial. Perhaps indicative of my chaotic life at the time. As much as I love the title track, “Impresssive Instant,” “Don’t Tell Me” (one of my absolute faves), and “What It Feels Like For a Girl,” I rarely revisit this one.
  13. Confessions on a Dance Floor … blasphemy, I know. “Hung Up” (which is my ringtone), “Sorry,” “Issac” … all perfection. But perhaps I was alone in feeling this was a safe and uninspired turn after several albums where Madonna signaled she didn’t really care if you liked her anymore. Can’t blame her. Smart move. But not my fave.
  14. True Blue … lovely, pleasant, boring album. Many hits. I love “Open Your Heart” and “Live to Tell.” I never, ever listen to this. Respect it, but don’t care to hear it. Two of two albums on this list scored from my dad’s Columbia House/BMG Record Club memberships.
  15. Like a Virgin … second bit of blasphemy. Her Thriller. The moment the world fixed its collective gaze on her. I was being tortured in junior high by girls dressing like her. Picked on by boys twice my size on the bus home as these songs droned on in the background. Perhaps too much pre-pubescent PTSD wrapped up in this album for me. Own it. Will never play it. “Material Girl” and “Dress You Up” notwithstanding.
  16. Hard Candy.* Ew. Just ew. (*Except “Miles Away” … that song belonged on another, better album. ANY other album.)

Well, that was therapeutic. Even those albums at the bottom of my list I have pretty much committed to memory. I adore Madonna, and I always shall. She has given voice and perspective to so many facets of life for me. She has been both a healing and a motivating force … and for that I am forever grateful.

Warning: Do not underestimate him in a room.

My dear friend Jessica Aries – an absolute rock star of a human being and one of our best AI and legal marketing/business development strategists – shared this prompt yesterday, encouraging us all to give it a whirl: “Describe me like you’re trying to warn someone about me before they meet me.”

Whirl I did. 😅

WARNING: Before You Meet Roy Sexton

Do not be fooled by the law-firm CMO title and the MBA. Yes, Roy can talk brand strategy, budget lines, and business development with the best of them — but underneath the blazer is a full-blown theatre kid who will, without warning, pivot a conversation about quarterly marketing metrics into a passionate monologue about a movie you’ve never heard of and definitely won’t see coming.

He has an MA in theatre. He uses it. Often.

He has opinions about “whatever film has been most obnoxiously hyped, marketed, and oversold in any given week” — and he will share them, whether or not you asked. There’s a blog. There are two books. Approach with caution if you don’t have twenty minutes.

He is disarmingly good at making you feel like the most interesting person in the room — this is either genuine connector energy or expert-level networking technique, possibly both, and you may not be able to tell the difference.

Do not underestimate him in a room. Colleagues warn he’s “not suffering fools” under all that warmth — the charm is real, but so is the sharp assessment happening behind it.

Comic books may come up. Musical theatre may come up. Do not express doubt about either.

Proceed with enthusiasm. You have been warned.

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Counsel Collective’s “Behind the Brand” spotlights 45 legal marketing/business development leaders making a difference … I am honored to be included among them

From Counsel Collective’s “Behind the Brand”:

Edition One recognised twenty chiefs. Edition Two builds on that recognizing more than those on top.

Forty five people across thirty five organisations who built the reputation of a law firm or a legal company. Chief marketing officers, yes. Also the directors, the senior directors, the vice presidents, and one chief operating officer who came up through brand.

Thirty eight years at one firm, library technical services to chief marketing officer. Twenty one years at another, event manager to chief communications officer. A federal courts reporter now running a fifty person team. These careers were never linear, and the recognition systems built around them still assume they were.

So this edition is grouped by organisation instead of ranked. Where a firm has depth, the chief and the leader beneath them appear under one header, the same size, on the same page. A growth function is a bench, not a person.

Every seat was confirmed against the person’s own record in August. Where a firm page disagreed with that record, the person’s own record won. That check moved nine titles and caught one person who had changed employers entirely.

The full edition is here.

Congratulations to every one of them.

I am honored to be included among this incredible crew!

Kudos to my talented friends and fellow in-house legal marketers and business developers: Susan Collier (Ahern) , Rachel Shields Williams , Kerry Price , John Byrne , Keith Ecker , Angela Petros , Diana Lauritson, MBA, M.S. , Maria A. Black , Joey Kaiser , Jill Perry , Trish Lilley , Iris J. Jones, JD , Jeanne Hammerstrom , Iwona Kesting , Justin Portaz , Erin Banks , Katy Admirand , Kathryn Whitaker , Jessica E. Haarsgaard , Adam Severson , Danielle Smith , Julia Bennett , Meredith Coppola Rosenthal , Jasmine Trillos-Decarie , Paul Bonner , Amber Bollman , Koree Khongphand-Buckman , RJ Williams , Kevin Cavanaugh , Ian Ribald JD, MBA , Christopher Newman , Shanon Webster, Esq. , Ryan Daniels , Arthur Uratani , and Julie Chodos!

And shout out to the fabulous service providers also recognized here: Alecha Stackle , Melissa Mickelson , Joshua Schnoll , Casey Sullivan , Olivia Mockel von dem Bussche , Andy Burtis , Cynthia Gumbert , John Vincenzo , and David Helfenbein

Inside Practice’s AI x Midsize Conference, November 5 in Chicago … with yours truly as the keynote speaker … “Building High-Performing Teams: Talent Development and Retention in a Resource-Conscious Environment”

Thrilled to be the keynote speaker at Inside Practice’s AI x Midsize conference in Chicago in November.

Register here.

My session description follows … thank you, Tim Hart, Daniel Smallwood, Shana English, Charde’ Carbonell, for helping me look and sound smart:

Building High-Performing Teams: Talent Development and Retention in a Resource-Conscious Environment …

In today’s competitive legal market, attracting, developing, and retaining top talent requires more than simply offering higher salaries. This session explores how law firms can build high-performing teams with limited budgets by adopting a people-first approach to talent development, career progression, and employee engagement.

Attendees will learn strategies for identifying critical talent gaps, creating meaningful career trajectories, and transforming teams from reactive service providers into proactive business partners. Hear innovative recruitment and retention practices, alternative incentives that drive employee satisfaction, and the importance of aligning leadership, HR, and departmental stakeholders around shared organizational goals.

Join this discussion to discover practical approaches for building resilient teams, securing leadership buy-in, and cultivating a workplace culture that attracts and retains exceptional legal professionals.

Honored to be part of a speakers’ cohort that includes many of the best and brightest in our industry and profession – people I admire and consider dear friends: Dave Hambourger, Alex Schnepf, Michael Nogroski, Morgan Llewellyn, Linda Moss, Sivan Koenig Galinsky, Melissa Melinauskas Marshall, James Wang, Mark Levin, Brooke Loucks, Rachel Shields Williams, Sally Rouse, Paula Hincapie Smith, and Jeanne Burger Hammerstrom.

(Now I gotta figure out what in the h*ll I’m gonna say …)